What People Say

I would like to express my deep appreciation for Gaylene Delaney and the beautiful support she provides as a death doula.

Gaylene was incredibly supportive with a family/whānau I also cared for as a palliative care community nurse. Gaylene helped them to care for their loved one at home in a way that was filled with compassion, respect, and love. She gently guided them through every step of the process with genuine care and empathy, ensuring they felt supported and confident in their choices.

After their loved one’s passing, Gaylene continued to walk alongside the family, helping them through the ceremony at home and taking care of all the necessary requirements with calm reassurance and heartfelt understanding.

Her presence brought comfort, strength, and peace during a deeply emotional time, and her guidance made an experience of loss also have dignity and grace.

We have been so blessed to have Gaylene walking alongside our family before, during and after the passing of our loved one. Gaylene’s experience as a nurse was really helpful as she could explain what was happening to Dad at each stage of the process. 

Gaylene was able to provide advice on what we could expect from the caregivers and nursing staff, as well as invaluable assistance with practical things in making arrangements for once Dad passed as we wanted to do as much as possible ourselves. 

The only thing we needed a funeral director for was transporting the body. The funeral director we used for transporting Dad was hugely impressed with how we had managed the whole process from start to finish - truth is, it was mostly Gaylene’s guidance that enabled us to make all the arrangements necessary to have him at home, including the final farewell service.

Gaylene’s involvement gave all members of our family both the confidence and emotional support to navigate an unfamiliar system and a stressful time as we each had our own grieving while also organising where Dad would lie, what the service would involve, who was likely to visit him/us over the time of mourning, and trying to look after each other in the process. 

The services provided by Gaylene are an amazing mix of both practical and personal support - a perfect mix of being gentle and unassuming most of the time, and assertive and instructive when we needed to feel someone knew what was required at a particular moment. 

We whole-heartedly recommend other families consider using a doula and Embrace Life will be an excellent choice. 

Gaylene has been supporting me on my journey with end-of-life liver disease, and I have found her to be a comforting, reassuring, kind, and humble presence, while also being clear and confident when needed. Meeting her during this time in my life has felt like a wonderful synchronicity. She has given me the confidence and strength to face what lies ahead.

I may be alone in many ways, but I no longer feel alone, because I now have someone beside me who truly understands and who has also become a friend.

This is a deep honour for me. I can’t express how grateful I am for her presence in my life. If anyone is ever in need of Gaylene’s support, I would gladly and wholeheartedly recommend her.

She is a truly angelic woman doing the important work our communities need. Not only has she created this path, she’s helping others see that it’s possible—and real.

Thank you so much. 

— Michelle 

I have recently had reason to make use of Ms Delaney’s services. My wife died in May and her memorandum of wishes included the requirement for a private, very small funeral. Ms Delaney made that surprisingly straightforward, collaborating with our daughters who arranged casket, crematorium and transport.

Ms Delaney’s part was critical since she attended to the physical requirements of preparing my wife’s body. She also provided equipment carrying ice packs to maintain my wife’s body at the necessary temperature for two days; and essential documentation.

I cannot speak too highly of Ms Delaney. Not only was she tactful and sensitive to our feelings, she was discreet in all she did. I am happy to recommend her.

— Brian

Death Café Testimonial

I just wanted to say a big thank you to you all for my first and definitely not last death cafe. Such an insightful and inspiring gathering.

Till next time.

Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions or would like further information

info@embracelife.co.nz
027 552 2997

Omokoroa,

Bay of Plenty,

New Zealand